Today I turned 21! Why I feel weird about it I’m not exactly sure. Maybe, I just being technically considered an official adult when I have the humor and sarcasm of a 14 year old boy. Or the fact that being 21 means I can buy alcohol and I could care less about that.
I don’t know. On one hand I’m in the amazing place in my life. I can feel so deeply that I’m about to start seeing some amazing things happen in my life and yet another part of me just wants to be a kid. Not that being an adult means that you have to discard all childish things. I’m never going to give up the lightness of joy I feel when I connect to the childish things of life.
Maybe it’s just my impression of being 21 and what being an adult means. In reality, I can make it whatever I want. Which is what I am going to do. So I’m going to forget about all the things about being 21 I don’t really care about and define it for myself.
As a 21 year old I’m going to have the most fun I’ve ever had in my life.
This last year being 20 I spent a majority well, all of that time cleaning up my mental health. I literally don’t have depression or anxiety anymore. It’s unreal. So, I’m proud as heck of 20 year old me. I got myself through the darkest most scared parts of my mind and gently coaxed it into being happy pretty much all of the time. Which is honestly, the best present I’ve ever given myself ever. I didn’t kick depressions ass. I soothed depressions heart. I soothed it out of existence and that’s the most incredible thing I’ve ever done ever.
So that means 21 year old me gets to enjoy herself. She gets to live out one of the happiest years of life so far (I intend to continue the increased happy years). She gets to enjoy waking up being excited about the day. She gets to know that everything is always working out for her. She gets to feel good about herself. She gets to experiment with makeup and expressing herself because she finds it fun. She gets to have so much fun.
I am so excited for this next year in my life. I have evolved so much and I feel so much trust in myself and in the universe and I have this feeling, this inner knowing, that this next year is going to be filled with so much more to be joyous about then I can imagine! Every moment I am embodying more and more to be the woman that I desire to be. So whatever happens this year I’m ready.
I had fun today. I may have had to work, but I had a wonderful breakfast and an awesome vanilla latte and my mom actually surprised me with a gift of nail polish and an eyeshadow as I’ve been interested in playing with makeup recently and I always wear nail polish. I know I’m probably not going to wear it everyday. I just want to have fun with it and I feel that’s worth exploring.
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Happy birthday 🥳 I hope you have a wonderful day 🎂
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Thank you!! ❤️🤗
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My pleasure Tiana everyone deserves to feel special on their birthday.☺️❤️🤗
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Happy birthday! 🎉😘
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Thank you!!! 🤗🎉
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Hey Tiana! I can totally relate, 2 years ago when I turned 21 myself. Keep your head up high as life continues to surprise you. Wishing you all the best in everything you do 🙂
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Thanks so much! That means a lot to me! 🤗
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Happy birthday!! 🎉 Was so lovely to hear about how positive you’re feeling, I hope that your 21st year is the best one so far ✨❤️
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I know it will be! It just feels right! 🤗
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Happy happy birthday! Really proud of you 💕💕
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Thank you! That means a lot to me! 🤗
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Happy birthday! I hope its one to remember 😊
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It definitely was! Thanks so much! 🤗
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Happy birthday and beautiful insightful thoughts on your amazing day ! 🎉🎉🎉
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Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed this! This means a lot to me! 🤗
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Happy birthday!! 😁
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Thank you!! 😊
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Happy Birthday!!
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Thank you!!😄
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Happy Birthday! ❤
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Thank you! 😊
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HAPPPPPPY BIRTHDAYYYY!
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THANK YOU!!!
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Happy birthday! It sounds like you made some great steps this year. You so so deserve to enjoy the progress you’ve made this upcoming year 😊❤
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Thanks so much! I have done a lot of inner work this past year for sure. I’m so ready to embrace this next year and make a lot of happy memories! 🤗
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Happy belated birthday!!
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Thank you!!! 🤗
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Happy Birthday!!!!! You only are 21 once so …enjoy!
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I mean your not wrong. I am definitely going to make the best of it! Thank you!
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Happy birthday! Enjoy your day🎉🎊🎈
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Thanks so much! 🤗
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Happy Birthday!
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Thank you! 🤗
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You’re welcome!
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Happy Birthday! 🙂
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Thank you!!! 🤗
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